A year and a half ago I wrote about a long
standing concern of mine that many believers display a sense of entitlement
when it comes to the church. Many, it seems, cannot lay aside their
personal preferences and desires and focus on Christ and follow the pattern He
set forth in the New Testament. Every week, all across the nation a great
number of people enter worship services only to focus on themselves for the
next hour.
Allen Raynor Weblog: “The ‘Country Club’ Church
(Jan. 26, 2016)
For many years I have often heard the non-flattering comparison made between
some churches and “country clubs.” I did not quite understand the link
early on, but I have come to appreciate what people mean when they make the
comparison. We live in a consumer-driven world and an unmistakable
consumer-driven way of thinking has poured into the church of the Lord Jesus
like a flood. This mind-set is now driving much of what the church does
and how it does it.
The majority of people have never been a member of an exclusive country club
and probably only know vaguely as to how it operates and what it offers.
I browsed the websites of several country clubs and found overwhelming
consistency on a few key things. Annual memberships seemed to run in the
2 or 3 thousand dollar range with packages offering extra perks and benefits costing
even more. They offer quality and abundance of the things they believe
people desire. These include such things as golf, tennis, racquetball,
aerobics, yoga, swimming, fitness classes and equipment, banquet halls, fine
dining, etc. A direct quote from one country club’s website extends the
invitation to “Become a member and enjoy the benefits membership has to
offer.” Another website offers as their mission statement: “It’s our
mission to provide a tradition rich, outstanding private country club known for
the quality of its membership and for service that exceeds expectations.”
I do not know of any particular church that is so bold as to adopt, word for
word, as its mission statement the one used by this particular country club,
but it seems to be widely implied across the church landscape of our
consumer driven nation. In fact, if you removed the words “private
country club,” and substituted the word “church,” many churches in America
would be comfortable adopting this as their mission statement. It would then
read “It’s our mission to provide a tradition rich, outstanding church known
for the quality of its membership and for service that exceeds
expectations.”
Recently I read a post on facebook
by a gentleman who had visited a church. He mentioned he had been looking
for a church change for a long time. He referred to the church he had
recently visited and was complimentary of the music, friendliness, and overall
environment. He made no reference to the preaching or beliefs of the
church. Not to imply any of it was necessarily bad, but it is interesting
that the things which were mentioned by him would be the things that had
the most appeal to the flesh. It would be the things that might also draw
someone to a country club with all its amenities. Somewhere along the
line many believers have drifted from internalizing Christ’s Words “If anyone
desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and
follow Me.” (Mat. 16:24)
One of the most frequent words I encountered in my browsing of the country club
websites was the word “amenity.” Webster’s defines it as “The
quality of being pleasant or agreeable; something that conduces to comfort,
convenience, or enjoyment.” Most churches do things that lead to their
further comfort and enjoyment. One positive exception came early in my
years of pastoral ministry. In the late 1990s a tornado ravaged a nearby
community and we were discussing, in a church business session, how much money
we could/should send to help out. We were a small church with limited
resources. Our church was in process of having our church pews
re-upholstered at the time. A man spoke up and suggested rather pointedly
that we should send at least as much money to the tornado relief as we were
spending on cushions for our seats. The church could not argue with that
challenge, so we sent an equal amount which was around 3 thousand
dollars. The two expenditures used up about 2/3 of the money we had in the
bank, but we never missed it. I have thought about that many times over
the years as I have thought about the attitude churches should have as
they fulfill their purpose and mission before the eyes of God. Our
attitude should be the exact opposite of the “country club” mindset.
If it is about you, you may not be willing to settle for less than what you
think you deserve when it comes to the overall church experience. Many
church goers are like rude patrons in a restaurant expecting top quality food
and service for their money. But if you are a Christian, you are still a
Christian in that restaurant and even though you are not the waiter or waitress
whose job it is to serve, it is your very purpose/mission to serve them.
It is an exponentially higher calling. When we go to our church, or when
we visit another church we need to be constantly looking for ways to help/serve
rather than ways to be consumers of amenities. We desperately need to
follow the Lord’s example. “The Son of Man did not come to be
served; but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.” (Mat.
20:28)
In Christ,
Dr. Allen Raynor, Pastor